What do successful people do that sets them apart from the other people? Actually, success comes down to emotional intelligence more than anything else. In this post, we are going to look at how successful people use this skill to achieve their dreams. Ultra successful people portray some of the following qualities:
Ultra Successful people speak assertively because they know it is difficulty to get people to listen to you if you can’t deliver your ideas with conviction.
Ultra successful people reach decisions by thinking things out, seeking advice from others and using it to make logical decisions. They know that impulsively relying too much on gut instinct is ineffective and misleading. They are able to slow down and logically think things through.
They are composed because they constantly monitor their emotions; they understand them, and they use this knowledge in the moment to react to challenging situations with self-control. When things go the way they didn’t expect, they are persistently calm and content. They know that no matter how good or bad things get, everything changes with time. All they can do is adapt and adjust to stay happy and in control.
They are cognizant of their gestures, expressions, and tone of their voices knowing very well that this is what draws people to them. Using an enthusiastic tone, not crossing your arms, maintaining an eye contact and leaning towards the person who’s speaking are all forms of positive body language that ultra-successful people use to draw others in . Note, that Positive body language makes all the difference in a conversation because the way you say something can be more important that what you say.
They seek continuous learning through self-education. They are always looking for opportunities to improve and new things to learn about themselves and the world around them.
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First impressions are tied intimately to positive body language. A strong posture, a firm handshake, a smile and open shoulders help ensure your first impressions is a good one.
Small victory builds motivation for taking greater challenges, also when you achieve a series of small victories, there is a boost in your confidence. Successful people like to challenge themselves and compete, even when their efforts yield only small victories.
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They know that honesty enables genuine connections with people in a way that dishonesty can’t and that lying will always come back to bite you in the end.
Graceful people are strong and gentle. It is the gentleness of being graceful that gives the successful people their power. They are approachable, likable and easy to get a long with.
Successful recognize others for their contributions towards them being successful. They also appreciate the opportunities that life has given them.
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Never really thought about the demeanor of a successful person, but these points are all very spot on! Good things to keep in mind for the future!
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I definitely agree that successful people are composed and graceful. These simple habits really help with their success,
True. Thanks.
Interesting. I didn't realize that so many people have similar traits. But you could be right.
Hi, thanks for reading.
it's always good to remember small victories ❤️
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I totally agree with the post that successful people have these qualities. Thanks for sharing.
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Great post and very motivating at the same time. Honesty is the key, for making friends or even business partner. We need to have the trust in order to get the long term relationship.
True! Thanks.
Another great post and tips. Very insightful. I need to be more fearless!!
Thanks Kim.
Great post and spot on. Only thing I would add is they make sure to take care of their health
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Great tips. I agree, the only one I would have added is planning! They plan and execute without loosing flexibility. #Globalblogging
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Great post John, I know somebody who has lot of these qualities. But I love the way he talks and delvers his ideas with a soft assertive tone. And whenever he is around, that person exudes a kind of aura which inspires you to do something great. I am a big fan of how incredible human mind and bodies are and the way we can learn great habits, virtues and qualities. I totally agree with the post that successful people have these qualities. Thanks for sharing.
Hi Gursimrat, am grateful for you insightful feedback. We should always strive to learn from those people who have succeeded in life.