Simple habits of ultra successful people

What do successful people do that sets them apart from the other people? Actually, success comes down to emotional intelligence more than anything else. In this post, we are going to look at how successful people use this skill to achieve their dreams. Ultra successful people portray some of the following qualities:  Simple habits of Ultra Successful People

  • They speak with certainty – Ultra Successful people speak assertively because they know it is difficulty to get people to listen to you if you can’t deliver your ideas with conviction.
  • They are deliberate – Ultra successful people reach decisions by thinking things out, seeking advice from others and using it to make logical decisions. They know that impulsively relying too much on gut instinct is ineffective and misleading. They are able to slow down and logically think things through.
  • They are composed – They are composed because they constantly monitor their emotions; they understand them, and they use this knowledge in the moment to react to challenging situations with self-control. When things go the way they didn’t expect, they are persistently calm and content. They know that no matter how good or bad things get, everything changes with time. All they can do is adapt and adjust to stay happy and in control.
  • They use positive Body language – They are cognizant of their gestures, expressions, and tone of their voices knowing very well that this is what draws people to them. Using an enthusiastic tone, not crossing your arms, maintaining an eye contact and leaning towards the person who’s speaking are all forms of positive body language that ultra-successful people use to draw others in . Note, that Positive body language makes all the difference in a conversation because the way you say something can be more important that what you say.  

  • They are knowledgeable – They seek continuous learning through self-education. They are always looking for opportunities to improve and new things to learn about themselves and the world around them.
  • They leave a strong first impression – First impressions are tied intimately to positive body language. A strong posture, a firm handshake, a smile and open shoulders help ensure your first impressions is a good one.
  • They seek out small victories – Small victory builds motivation for taking greater challenges, also when you achieve a series of small victories, there is a boost in your confidence. Successful people like to challenge themselves and compete, even when their efforts yield only small victories.
  • They are honest – They know that honesty enables genuine connections with people in a way that dishonesty can’t and that lying will always come back to bite you in the end.
  • They are graceful – Graceful people are strong and gentle. It is the gentleness of being graceful that gives the successful people their power. They are approachable, likable and easy to get a long with.
  • They are grateful/appreciative – Successful recognize others for their contributions towards them being successful. They also appreciate the opportunities that life has given them.
  • They are fearless – Fear is in fact a lingering emotion fueled by your imagination. Fear is a choice. Instead of letting fear take over, successful people are addicted to the euphoric feeling of conquering fears.

Author: John Mulindi

John is very passionate about Digital marketing. He blogs on topics ranging from Social Media marketing, Search Engine optimization, Internet Marketing, Email Marketing, to Personal Development. In free time he likes watching Football, Reading, Listening to music and taking Nature walks.

77 thoughts on “Simple habits of ultra successful people”

  1. I tried to measure up to the listed protocols for success and I was found wanting. I have a long way to go to embrace the mindset of the ultra successful. You have really offered some really sobering insights

  2. Or just rich and have parents who can buy their way into success. LOL. That’s the nice shortcut, ha.

  3. Seeking out small victories is something I’m learning to work on, but it doesn’t come naturally for me. I’ a big picture type of person, so I tend to only give myself credit when the entire goal is accomplished or only after the final project is done. I know that there are so many small steps that go into accomplishing anything, and I need to give myself credit for those small wins too!

  4. I totally agree with the post that successful people have these qualities. Thanks for sharing.

  5. Great post and very motivating at the same time. Honesty is the key, for making friends or even business partner. We need to have the trust in order to get the long term relationship.

  6. Great post John, I know somebody who has lot of these qualities. But I love the way he talks and delvers his ideas with a soft assertive tone. And whenever he is around, that person exudes a kind of aura which inspires you to do something great. I am a big fan of how incredible human mind and bodies are and the way we can learn great habits, virtues and qualities. I totally agree with the post that successful people have these qualities. Thanks for sharing.

  7. Totally agree of all these traits and charateristics mentioned on the list! the best that I adore is “They are fearless” successful people oozing with this and I’d love to be one of them 🙂

  8. These are great insights. The more we are seeking to live our dream, the more we are doing more and more of that making a first impression and speaking with conviction. It goes a long way in helping others see what you see. Thanks for sharing!

  9. I agree! They have reached the level of self actualization. This reminds me of a person who is very close to me. I’m learning a lot from him. Thank you for sharing!

  10. Very good points and so true! Be fearless, be positive and be open. That’s most of it. The attitude and the postures come from inside. Everything else required for success can really be learned.

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